The Power of Starting: Embracing Your Creative Journey
Is there something you’ve been curious to try? If so, what’s holding you back? Years ago, I was told that opportunities are everywhere—you just have to say yes. While that may sound simple, the truth is, saying yes requires belief in yourself, and that was something I struggled with for a long time.
As I reflect on the last decade of my journey as a photographer—seven years part-time and nearly three years full-time—I recognize the many opportunities that have come my way. These opportunities came in the form of networking connections, educational experiences, and guidance from other creatives. Yet, despite these doors opening, I didn’t always walk through them. And you know why? I wasn’t ready.
For years, I didn’t believe in myself. I convinced myself that there was no space for me in such a saturated industry. That feeling of doubt can be overwhelming, but one of the most important lessons I’ve learned is to never underestimate the value you bring to the world. Think about how vast the world is—it’s huge! There is absolutely room for your creative vision; you just have to take action.
I attended photography school many years ago, and some of my classmates went on to become incredible photographers. To this day, I am so proud of all they have accomplished. Meanwhile, I treated photography as a hobby, staying in the comfort zone of what was socially acceptable. They pursued their dreams, building businesses from the ground up. People saw my potential, but I didn’t believe them—because I didn’t believe in myself.
It wasn’t until 10 years ago that I found the courage to start. I began collaborating with inspiring photographers and creatives, slowly building my own body of work. Along the way, their encouragement gave me the push I needed. As I explored my art, I gained confidence. With confidence, I took more risks and sought out bigger opportunities, from charity calendars to larger events. The confidence I had longed for when I first started didn’t just appear—it was something I had to work for.
Looking back at my early work, I can see how much I’ve grown. The learning curves, the trial and error, and the awkward moments were all part of the process. I don’t always get it right, but I have the courage to try—and that, in itself, is a great place to start.
So, I’m here to tell you: just start. Even if it’s a small step toward your goals, take it. No matter what your dream is, take action. Share your passions with someone you trust, and as your confidence grows, share them with the world. Your journey is yours to shape, and you decide who to include along the way.
The process takes as long as it needs to, whether that’s months or years. Every journey is personal, and there is no timeline for success. There is strength in simply beginning. If you start and discover that something isn’t for you, that’s okay—you tried, and that’s what matters.
I can’t wait to see what you create.
Sincerely,
Miss Friend